this is the situation I have IRL. Names I will use (fake names) Ava - sweet friend of mine Mia - another very sweet friend Andrew - noice friend Anda (☠️) - sarcastic but noice friend Maya - understanding friend -- In 2022, when I was in fifth grade, there were two friends, Ava and Mia, they are/were very close and i ended up joining their friend group. We would always hanging out as a trio, but then In the end of 2022 or beginning of 2023 Mia became very weird and started becoming toxic She would talk smack behind Ava's back too. In the middle of 2022 maya also became our friend) so, IRL, Mia and maya have the same name but different spelling Mia wants to be the only one with that name so she hates the other one for no reason Mia is literally obsessed with me and talks smack about others but she cares for me a lot So.. in 2023, Andrew and anda joined our friend group. Maya has anxiety (I'm sure) and when we were doing our class assembly practices, I caught mia giving her a d34th stare Maya looked uncomfortable, then miss smiled and said "great, she's uncomfortable" I was so disgusted Then once we were pushing each other around while sitting in chairs, Mia couldn't push maya and she immediately just spat out "damn maya, what size are you?" I didn't talk to her for a while after that In 7th it became worse, her hatred grew more and more, she talks smack about EVERYONE. Maya is the understanding therapist like friend who's there for you and I really appreciate that Andrew is also like that Anda is more carefree and more on the teasing side Ava is the dry but so sweet friend We had a big fight in summer break because- Basically, Ava called me once, saying that Mia called her the B word. Ava wouldn't lie to my face like that, would she?? So i confronted Mia but she denied it and all And basically on teams (Microsoft teams) it shows your status, available, away, offline etc So Ava had finished calling me and her mom came, so her status was still showing available since teams didn't process it Mia wanted to text Ava about that and then saw that her status had changed to "unavailable" so she called her a H03. It was wrong of me but I told my other friends and they were confronting misa but she started straight up crying and victimizing herself How could I forget? She once wrote a message like - "I hope maya dies at a young age" Maya confronted Mia but she denied everything I have a secret ig acc which I can't access anymore (forgot the password) but I checked it to see that Mia wrote me a message like "toxic red flag behaviour!" Tho she knows i can't check into my ig often She even copied me bio just to get my attention She is obsessed with me and my cat, using my cat as her profile picture which I never gave her the permission to. So now, present day Ava and Mia have grown much closer sometimes ignoring me Basically in my school, there are bus students - go home by bus Van student - use van to go home Self pick-up - parents come to pick them up / they go home themselves Me, Andrew , maya and Ava are bus students, (me and Andrew in same bus) once I got carried away talking to Mia and turned around to see all bus students are gone! Including Ava and maya. I expected to see them waiting outside for me but they weren't there, instead i saw both of them laughing and walking away not even turning back Im rlly sensitive (as y'all know) and I started walking to the bus area, holding in tears, just angry and disappointed At one point maya and me even made eye contact but she didn't care When I reached my bus Andrew was tying his laces and was like "are you okay" and i told him what happened He was like "you looked sad, so I could tell" And my parents have been pissing me off so much I'm so bored and angry nowadays
