this is about my experience with being on the aroace spectrum and non binary. its also about my relationship with the expectations others have for me, like my parents, friends, and even strangers. sometimes it feels like everyone expects me to have children in the future or get married. im only fourteen but these topics get brought up, sometimes it's just so hard to deal with so I wrote a poem. hope yall enjoy it <3
if i say im a boy then i feel like I'm lying but when i say im a girl i feel like im dying i don't really know who i am or why i know im not a sam its like when put on your comfort sweater but don't start to feel better i wish i was born as neither i hate that i have to be either one of the other i don't want the be your sister or brother i have a name but i don't like it could you listen to me and sit when all that matters is having a family if i end with none what would that make me my issues aren't really that mild does it really matter if there is a child why do you expect such large things if in the end, nobody's going to care about the rings