more labels? yeah i guess ? so ig im aroace-spec ?!?! i knew i was ace but ive come to the realization im demi-romantic, meaning i have no romantic attraction to I'manyone i don't have an established relationship with. like. ive never had a crush on strangers, or thought a guy was hot and then thought about anything further than that. i've never understood having crushes on guys who don't even know who you are. for me, i have to know someone for at least like 2 weeks and spend a considerable amount of time with them. (my current crush i knew him for maybe a month before i felt any romantic attraction) and like i have fictional crushes sure. but those are fictional, like if they came to life idk them, i wouldnt like them like that :p identity is hard for me lol. it's crazy the amount of self exploration ive done this past year-- last christmas i thought i was a pan nonbinary person (very wrong xD). within the past year ive learned i was a trans guy!? ive learned a whole lot about myself (and others too!!) it's insane. in a good way xD idk as always sorry for rambling, have a nice day :3
