Sleepovers: 0-4 - Probably not 5-7 - close friends and family 8-12 - Friends (including boys) that I have met and that you know at school 13+ - I need to know them and no boys unless I know them well. Bedtimes: (weekends) 0-2 - 6:00 2-4 - 6:30 5-7 - 8:00 8-10 - 8:45 11-12 - 9:30 13+ - 9:45, negotiable Devices: 0-4 - My TV, my limits 5-7 - My TV, my phone, my limits 8-12 - Own phone with reasonable limits, screen time, my TV 13+ - Own phone and earbuds. Makeup: 0-4 - absolutely not! (chapstick is not make-up) 5-7 - Still no, lip gloss is okay for special occasions. 8-12 - See above and the tiniest bit of eyeliner starting at 11. Concealer for yearbook pictures, also at 11. 13+ - Leetle eyeliner, lip gloss, lipstick for special occasions Grades: As and Bs - good work! I'm proud of you. Keep it up. Cs - it’s not the best… but you tried your hardest, and it’s not too bad. Let's review what you got wrong, okay? Fs - It's OK it happens to the best of us-- just try harder next time. Allowance: 0-12 - OK, you can freeload, and money from doing extra chores. 13-16 - $10 a month, plus money from doing extra chores. 17+ - get a job, I'll pay if you need something urgent. Smoking: 0-20 - NO NEVER 21+ -NO NEVER