Hey there! I’m @lumitythecat or online nickname Quinn. I want to talk about my experience being greyromantic and glitchgender. I’ll share greyromantic first because even lots of the Aro ace community as itself don’t know about it. Greyromantic is a term under the aromatic umbrella it’s not aromatic and it’s not Demiromantic. Greyromantic is when you have romantic attraction to a very small amount but not nothing. For me personally I’ve never had an actual real crush or want to be in a real relationship with anyone but I still feel sometimes that I could have a relationship through the years. I personally don’t care to be in a relationship but still wish I could. I feel romantic attraction sometimes but never really feel I need to be in a relationship. I also struggled with the overall concept of wanting to actually be with someone for I guess forever in a romantic way. I’ve faced some hate about Aro ace in general the normal “it’s not normal to not like ppl” or “you haven’t found the right person” but I think greyromantic is overlooked and misunderstood lots of the time sometimes even by people in the Aro ace community. Before I say anything glitchgender and genderglitch are not the same, genderglitch is gender-fluid that feels glitchy with rapid changes. Glitchgender is a xenogender that to me the definition is very best way to say is glitchy like it feels like I can’t define it well or that I have all but not actually all just a lot of genders but not all like I have gender but I also don’t a very static-e feel, like a broken gender, like I feel I’m all over the place with my gender but also no gender but not the feeling of no and all gender at the same time if you know what I mean. I have experienced some hate about xenogenders with people saying I’m a embarrassment to the lgbt+ movement or “I can’t choose to be a different gender to be quirky ” (I don’t chose my gender it’s how I am) overall xenos and neos are very hated for some reason and that sucks.
