so I took a wolf spider from school home (found it in the gym) and looked in the enclosure earlier, noticed her abdomen was smaller than normal, and saw the BIG AHH EGG SAC ATTACHED TO HER They don't need partners to have babies, all they need is a good diet and good environment. She is getting SPOILED
Welp now I know she's female ahahahahahahahhahahh WHY ME She's free now