My LGBallT Journey

Instructions

click to go to next slide 1) raised in a qu33rph0b1c household, professionally diagnosed with autism New flags/symbols: h0m0ph0b3, transph0b3, autism 2) discovers aroace from friend, still doesn't know that is part of LGBTQ New flags: aroace 3) learns about LGBTQ (and aroace being part of it) and they don't suck New flags: cis ally 4) realizes that I am in fact NOT cis, has mini gender crisis New flags: demigirl 5) figures out that I am genderfae and self-diagnoses with ADHD New flags/symbols: genderfae, AuDHD 6) begins to question gender due to h0m0ph0bia from family, tries a new fem-aligned label every 6 hours New flags: questioning 7) discovers neopronouns New flags: neopronouns 8) FINALLY figures out gender, believes that now my identity crisis is done New flags: genderfluid 9) My identity crisis is in fact NOT done New flags: voidpunk 10) learns that it/its pronouns can be used for people New flags: it/its pronouns 11) learns about nounself/emojiself/xenopronouns, self-diagnoses with synthesia New flags/symbols: multiprominal, "synthesia" (couldn't find symbol so pink S) 12) realizes that I'm a therian and discovers apothi- labels New flags/symbols: therian, apothiaroace 13) learns about otherkin, identifies with it New symbols: otherkin 14) discovers and identifies as xenofluid New flags: xenofluid 15) realizes that bellus and cassflux also apply to me, determines pronounflux important enough to my identity to earn a spot on there (before I was like, "oh, I'm pronounflux. cool") New flags: bellusromantic, cassflux, pronounflux 16) question aplatonism, afamilialism, asensualism, and ansheticism, decides I am not aplatonic but I am the rest (I also do not know if any of those are spelled right) New flags: a-aesthetic, afamilial, asensual 17) dives into the aspec community even more, goes into microlabels New flags: apothisthetic, apothirose, nebulasthetic, nebulafamilial 18) discovers plural community New flags/symbols: monoconsious, quoisensual, plural 19) a lot happens New flags/symbols: polarsensual, caedsensual, pronoun hoarder, heartless aro, quoigenic, agender, APD 20) re-explores aplspec, finds other terms New flags: influenconsious, aplflux 21) get rid of unused labels, tries on new labels New flags: asenspike, gendersylph 22) wants labels back, goes into questioning because none of the labels I found were the right one but knows that I am fluid between exclusively xenogenders, realises pronouns New flags: pronounflux, cassflux, quoigenic, it/its, questioning 23) accidentally wears it/its pronoun pin in front of parents, stops using certain labels out of shame, finds exxenofluid and makes a flag, but doesn't feel like my identity is figured out New flags: exxenofluid 24) starts using xe/xem, starts disconnecting from family, suffers from hate, starts getting new headmates like crazy, suffers from headpressure, gets rid of labels, questions if I'm actually aroace or just a late bloomer and sapphic, questions my gender once again New flags: aspec 25) starts feeling unsafe to talk about identity, stops using labels, questions if I've been faking New flags: unlabeled 26) gets somewhat better, finds the systemfluid label and starts using it New flags: systemfluid, apothifamilial, anattractional