No instructions, You don’t do anything. I don’t really go on this site anymore. I’m married now, as of 5/15/25. It’s really cool, highly recommend. If there’s one bit of advice I can give, it’s that you can’t fall in or out of love, only out of infatuation. Love is a choice so you either choose it or you don’t. Love doesn’t look like butterflies, but like intentional time spent together. Losing butterflies doesn’t mean the spark is lost. A spark is created, it doesn’t just happen. It looks like saying “I’m sorry” when you’re wrong and “I forgive you” when someone wronged you. True attraction is created from a continual choice to love. You don’t need to find the “spark” but instead make it with someone who is willing to kindle it with you. You can’t force feelings for someone, but love can kindle them.
My tip? Modern dating stinks. Find a friend or acquaintance, get to know them. You mind find yourself becoming best friends with them. That’s what happened to me. Not only is Mrs. VideoGame my wife, but she’s also my best friend. Also, it’s ok to be single. In any area in life, one can be content. Whether single or married. I’m a Christian so I see it this way: Jesus is love, so I ought to be loving to others. I hate to see a lot of people using religion as an excuse to mistreat their wives or significant others. Jesus lived a life of humility and servitude here on earth and that is my role as a husband. To love, serve, take care of, and cherish my wife.
