1. Bros before girls. This is the most important rule of the Bro Code playbook. Call it the first amendment of being a guy, if you will. Your bros come before any girl. Your friends will always be there for you, but a girl might not. 2. Never date your bro’s ex. If your bro has ever dated a girl, she is off-limits to you. There are plenty of other women there, and you don’t want to risk ruining your friendship over your pal’s ex-girlfriend. She’s an ex for a reason! 3. Remember your wingman duties. As a wingman, it’s your job to help your bro get with a girl. This means you should be willing to talk him up, make him look good, and step in if things start to go wrong. 4. No gossiping. When it comes to talking about your best friend, you should always keep it positive. Don’t be the guy spreading rumors or talking behind your friend’s back. 5. Split the bill equally. When you go out to eat with your bros, split the bill equally. Tools like Venmo and Zelle have made going out to eat with friends easier than ever. 6. Help a bro out. If your bro needs help, whether it’s moving or fixing his car, you should be willing to lend a hand. This is what friendship is all about. 7. Don’t date your bro’s sister. It should go without saying that dating your friend’s family is completely off-limits. Not only will it likely ruin your friendship, but it could also create an awkward family dynamic. 8. Give him a call. In an all-too-digital world, we often forget to pick up the phone and give our best pals a call. We get it; you’re a bro on the go. However, talking on the phone is a meaningful way to stay connected and show your friend that you care. 9. Look out for his girlfriend when he’s not around. Whether at the house or a party, you should always be aware of your bro’s girlfriend. Keep a brotherly eye out for her to make sure she’s safe! 10. Never leave a bro without a ride. Even if you want to go do something fun,ensure your bro has a way to get home. Leaving him hanging to chase after a date isn’t cool and could damage your friendship. 11. Don’t let him get a persons name tattooed on his chest. Sometimes, tattoos sound really great when we’ve been a kid,but they’re permanent and can be a bad idea. If your bro is thinking of getting a persons name tattooed after a long night of partying, talk him out of it! 12. Don’t let him do something (too) stupid. We all have that one friend who has a tendency to make questionable decisions when under the influence. It’s up to you as his friend to make sure he doesn’t do anything he’d regret. 13. Be there for the good and bad times. No matter what life throws at your friend, be the ultimate bro, and always be there to support him. That means riding with him on the highs of a new relationship or building him back up when he’s ready to date after a horrible breakup. Having someone you can count on is priceless. 14. Never hit him below the belt. Take this literally or metaphorically, but never take a cheap shot at your bro. This means no physical violence down under and also no emotional attacks. 15. Pick him up when he’s down. If your friend is feeling low, do whatever you can to lift his spirits. Sometimes, giving him a bit of space to process his emotions is the best thing you can do, but if he’s been down a long time, don’t be shy about offering your support. 16. If you think his partner is cheating on him, tell him. This is never an easy conversation to have, but if you think your bro’s partner is cheating on him, it’s best to tell him what you know. That way, he can make an informed decision. 17. Respect each other’s boundaries. It’s important to respect each other’s boundaries and privacy. Don’t overstep the mark by intruding into his personal life without permission. 18. If his girlfriend calls you and asks where he is, you don’t know. At the end of the day, your loyalty is to your friend. Unless he’s in a dangerous situation, never give away his whereabouts to a third party. 19. Don’t be afraid of healthy competition. Sometimes, competing against your best friend can bring out the best in you both. Just make sure to keep it friendly, and remember that winning isn’t everything. 20. If cash is tight, pitch in for his drink. Whether he’s forgotten his wallet or can’t afford another round, it’s nice when you can help a friend out. Buying him a drink here and there goes a long way in showing your support.
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