isnt it silly? a birthday is always forced to meet up to standards. every small thing. the cake can't be too bland or tasteless or then everyone will hate it, but if it's too showy and rich people will still hate it. presents must match the person, if they don't you look like a horrible person who doesn't even know what they're doing. The ribbons on a present must be perfect, not off angled at all or else it becomes ugly, and no one likes looking at something ugly and broken. The flame on a candle is a small light, supposed to bring happiness to the person, but it gets blown out every time. If you're not careful, the candle may melt into anything making it horrid and disgusting. If there is music at a birthday party, it must be upbeat to have everyone alive and sound good, if it isn't, it brings everyone and everything down. unlike my week, my birthday was peak tho :D i'll js have to hope that the week gets better now frfr it did not get better :brokenheart: