yay for new sona design and yay for recent gender exploration and yay for ten thousand lighting layers um so yeah i dont usually draw pride month stuff or flaunt my gender identity that much but im rather excited about it right now after finding the term genderfrith its not a perfect fit but i like a label thats more specific than genderfluid, so thats what im gonna go with for now im AFAB and havent asked anyone irl to use anything other than she/her, because it doesnt bother me too too much, but online you may have noticed that the pronouns in my bio have been he/she for quite some time. I originally put 'she' first because its more what im used to, but i moved 'he' first because i want to test how it feels if more people use he/him for me. im very hesitant to ask people irl to use he/him for me bc it kinda feels like im making it a 'thing,' yknow? Like, she/her doesn't bother me. Okay, most of the time it doesn't bother me. Sometimes it feels kinda odd. Or uncomfortable. Is that dysphoria? i dunno. i just dont really know how to explain it to people, or how to tell people when to use which pronoun, and it just feels like a hassle for something that isnt causing that much of a problem, i guess? but we'll see. in the meantime i'll stick to displaying my pronouns online, and happy pride month everyone!
