This project is mainly meant for close friends of mine and AJs (@-decomposed-) and this doesn't really affect anyone else but feel free to stay. Hi, so this project is basically what me and AJ want our close friends here to know because we think you all deserve the truth, and, as you can see from the title, me and him broke up after being together for just over two months. This project is meant to be an explanation because we don't want any false information to be spread or for people to mis interpret what really happened, so in this project I will be completely honest (while staying scratch appropriate) to all of you. Please note that I shared all of this with him before posting it and he's fine with me sharing all of this with everyone on here. Why~ The main reason behind our breakup was the fact that since we're long distance our interactions feel restricted as well as not romantic as we wish they were. He brought up to me that he feels our relationship felt more like a deep friendship and it was difficult because of our feeling for eachither and the labels we put on it, which I completely agree with. Another reason that we didn't discuss but I feel is true for me is that being closeted from family and not being able to share this experience with others aside my very close friends was not easy and since both our parents are very strict, it had to remain a secret, limiting our interactions even further. How~ We had an open discussion about all of this and came to the conclusion that it would be better to take a break from seeing eachither for the foreseeable future. What this means for us now~ Me and AJ have every intention of staying very close friends despite everything and we both still care for eachother very deeply, and I want only the best for him. We also discussed that in the future, if our individual lives allowed it, we would be very open to dating again, this is the thing we both agreed on the most. But for now since we're halfway across the world and still kids it doesn't seem possible. I want everyone to know that I have no regrets and if I could I'd do it all over again, but for now, that's withe whole story. Thank you~ We both know that we have so many supportive friends on here and we want to thank each and every one of you for being the way that you are. AJ's note~ Hey guys! AJ here. Yes i'm alive. Len and i parted on good terms, so don't be surprised if you see us still chattering away about 1D or something. I want you guys to know that I mostly struggled with the long distance part. As one of physical touch, it hurt me to not be as close as i wish we could be. I have nothing against Len as well. If our lives allow it, i would date him again.
