ok so I'm actually so sick of the kids at my school, they keep asking "so are you going to get the surgery??" or "do you have a dih?" NO! and then they also say "your female not male" or "you cant be male!" or "your no trans without the surgery" or "you cant be trans its not actually real" I'm not a she/her and I'm most definitely not an It/its i'm a he/him rather the ppl like it or not and don't get me started on the teachers "you cant be a male without the papers being signed" yes I can? or I just straight up get dead-named (I ask them to call me laynes cause its non-binary leaning at least but even then I want to be called my male name) and they just dead-name "oh we forgot!" I've told you so many times now, when my civics teacher called me *insert dead name* (it means heir of the darkness or smth like that) I stopped dead in my tracks and she corrected herself and said she forgot, and even then I don't really like 'laynes' I honestly I absolutely hate it, scratch is the only place were my pronouns and gender is respected (some of my friends respect me too and I'm glad but its certain people and if they see this you know who you are) but still I hate being misgendered especially on purpose dead-named too and my parents are somewhat supportive ,(I lied again she kinda supports it) my parents just want to protect me so thats why they keep telling me to wait but yea im still not doing the best but ya know im ok
