SO um here is the truth on why i broke up with my ex and got into a new relationship so quickly. OKAY SO this guy i have here is named "rito" (placeholder name) and we were together for longer than a year. rito and i were "good" friends or so i thought. my friends didnt like him except niki but yea i thought we were good but i guess not. he was a lil (su1dal) and i wasnt really but i thought i can fix it for him. When we got together i thought he was showing me affection cause we talk about our future and he gave me gifts and all but as i got out of it i realized it was loveb0mbing. he would use his mental state against me and would g01lt trip me often. Then i met my new bf and he was different, he matched my energy quickly and we clicked but with what my ex did i saw it as something bad. I avoided him but he kept coming and talking to me and i warmed up to him. i didnt tell rito bc everytime i talk to a guy he would tell me that i didnt love him anymore and etc. when i broke up with rito, he told me that he didnt want to deal with me and left. i texted him again and he would avoid the fact that im done until i had to force it in his head and he said that he left me alone becuase he wanted to know for sure that i was actually done with him. I told him that we can be friends but im not comming back to relationship. when i try to talk to him, he would be angry and tell me that hes tired and all until he was fine for one day, i had to break it to him that i was in a new relationship and that i moved on. he again tell me that he felt like a backup bf or a mutral as if we havent dated for a ENTIRE YEAR. i told him i was done and left completely. Now im in a new relation and he is a good guy. He loves me and does not try to overpower me, he writes songs about me and listens and cares about me. im glad i have him and we hangout a lot. i dont wanna go into detail but its fun to be with him now <3
