Rant again. :3.. Ghosting Casey didn’t work out, even though I was advised to do so by my counselor and my family. A girl I’m kind of friends with, Cara, texted him right before I planned to tell him not to contact me anymore. I had told her a week earlier that me and Casey were on and off for valid reasons, she immediately messaged him this making him mad. At lunch on Friday, Casey waited for me and my boyfriend by the stairs. He followed us in an aggressive way, raised his voice, and kept questioning me. I struggle badly with confrontations because of anxiety, so I ignored him. Both me and my boyfriend were clearly uncomfortable. I asked him to please leave us alone, but he yelled that he wouldn’t until I explained myself. He continued following us while calling me a bad friend in front of other students. I ended up leaving my things and going to the counselor because I was on the verge of an anxiety attack. The counselor said they would work on getting me a no-contact form, but it hasn’t been finalized yet, which means the harassment hasn’t stopped. Since then, Casey has been telling people that I’m “stirring the pot” and ignoring him for no reason, which isn’t true. I asked him multiple times along with my boyfriend and friends to stop grabbing at us, pulling our bags, and getting between me and my boyfriend when we’re together. This behavior made me very uncomfortable and also caused issues in my relationship, which I have since fixed. Things escalated again while walking home waiting for Trigger's friend's sister. Casey’s friends followed me and my boyfriend when we went ahead of his friends waiting for our safety, they shouted things at us, and one of them confronted me. I tried to explain that Casey had followed and yelled at us multiple times and that I just wanted to be left alone. She didn’t listen and threatened to hurt me. I did not fight. I was scared enough that I called my mom in a panic as soon as I got home because I was worried about my siblings being home alone and I didn't want them opening the door for anyone. My mom contacted the SRO to report the threats and ongoing harassment. Casey later messaged me saying he didn’t tell his friend to confront me. We are on neutral terms now, but I am still reporting what happened because being followed, yelled at, and threatened is not okay. Casey though still wants to be friends, he asked to me online friends on TT when I blocked him again on messages cause it was done and done. I felt bad so I said okay, but I am probably going to just be really dry or not talk at all with him slowly until he forgets about me.
I pray he and his friends stop, he loves doing this, threats, drama, manipulating me with all this nice crap over text how he feels so bad when I know he doesn't cause its just going to happen again and again, and I am done. He ruins every friends or relationship I have with any GUY specifically a male.