having a baby will be the greatest decision you ever make... In the world of lacrosse, having a baby is the least of your concerns. You either make the choice to stay with your team, or you walk away from the opportunities that lacrosse has to offer with your head held high to a possible future. Jonathan was on the verge of walking away. And, to be honest, if I had a kid, I would do the same. I’d want to be present for both my wife and child, even if it means sacrificing one thing I love to be with the people I love.