(in this i refer to the person you're trying to attract as male a lot because of my preference, sorry if that doesn't reflect yours and know this goes for pretty much anyone) - smelling good : smelling good is one of those subtle things that i've begun to realize that boys really do notice. i have a guy friend who will tell you if you smell good and go into full detail about like if you smell like summer, the beach, flowers etc. etc. and it's so funny but it's also SUCH a confidence boost. - wearing lots of jewelry : i have realized that wearing jewelry has not only made my outfits look so much better but also gotten me so much more compliments. i love bangles and people always compliment me on my bangles which i love so much! - giving compliments : my favorite kind of people are people who go out of their way to give someone a compliment or make other people feel good about themselves. you might think people don't notice this but a lot of people do, and it makes everyone so much more fond of you when you try and spread love everywhere you go. - good manners : i swear when someone is polite it just makes me SO HAPPY. the other day i bumped into this guy at a party, and where most of the other guys were out of it and sort of rude, when i apologized he said "no no you're good sorry" and even though that's like bare minimum it made me feel so much less out of place. also when people my age say thank you after the teacher passes out papers it makes me so happy. this one boy in one of my classes who seems like the opposite type of person to always says thank you and it feels wholesome for some reason. also i have a friend who is just an absolute ANGEL to staff at school/servers at restaurants and it is just my absolute favorite thing ever. people notice.
