preferred terms (no order): Dama, Da preferred pronouns (in order of pref): they/them, he/him Fjordfeather is not an experienced parent, or even really an experienced falconcat. They're spiralling into their own emotions far too often, and this may affect Spiderkit. But despite all that, despite the fact that Fjordie named Spiderkit after their lost lover, they do love Spiderkit for who they are and for who they may grow up to be. Spiderkit is to be loved by Fjordfeather, and Fjordie will defend them with Fjord's life. They love Spiderkit with an intensity perhaps almost too much, because now Fjordfeather has a cat to love and protect, and they will never, ever let go. This might make Fjordie a slightly overbearing parent, but they know when to let Spiderkit do their own thing. Most of the time.