friends rant

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hi y'all i don't want to make this a consistent theme on my page but a lot is happening and i just want to talk about it if you know me irl and don't want to hear me talk bad about a few people (K.G., A.M., J.P), dont read this. to start, i had a really unpleasant experience with a friend-of-a-friend of mine who i will refer to as K. K is usually fine around me, besides making weird comments all the time about my race. i know it isn't a big deal since i'm white (half white half South African actually), but it still makes me uncomfortable. but today, she kept talking about v0m1t because someone had done that recently, and it made me feel uncomfy, so i told her to stop. she didnt. in fact, she KEPT talking about it and ignored me, and when i asked her again she said "just cover your ears or whatever". like, sure, but can you respect that im grossed out and stop talking about it???? another one that's been going on is with an older friend of mine, A. i've known her since 2nd or 3rd grade, and we were very good friends in elementary school. but more recently, im beginning to think she's really annoying. i joined newspaper club recently, so i've been around her a lot more. she's very weirdly controlling and wants to do every part of the paper herself, and barely considers the rest of us in her decisions as well as being really bossy overall. she also consistently interrupts not only me but multiple people when they're talking or having a conversation or just plays really loud music that makes it hard to talk to people. the last person i want to talk about is J. i've talked about her before, and i won't go too into depth since i've already discussed it (see the project titled "vent?"), but it's been getting a bit worse. to start, she moved to a different school last year, and recently she said she met someone i'd like. but apparently she TOLD THAT PERSON (WHO I DO NOT KNOW AT ALL) MY DEADNAME WITHOUT MY PERMISSION as well as saying "sometimes i forget Achilles isn't really a boy" like what??? why would you do that. as well as this, she makes a ton of unnecessary "freaky" comments about things like celebrities in a group chat that a lot of people's parents can see while FULLY knowing that. i just generally don't feel respected by her. anyways bye and have a good day