Let me tell you a story (this is true and will probably be the most open I will ever be) when I was about 7 my dad d1ed and then my mom got arrested for overdose and then I went to live in multiple foster homes and now my mom is out and started a new family...without me in it...But I'm doing better now! With my amazing adoptive parents! The only down side is they have 5 other kids and my mom and this new guy have 2 soon to 3 so I have 8 kinda siblings...it's sooooooo annoying