I don’t know who I AM anymore. OK, lemme explain. I was going by she/her, but then I realised that didn’t suit me, so I started using she/they. Realising that I felt like a boy at times, I started identifying as genderfluid and using all pronouns. But now I almost never feel like a girl. I want to try out he/they pronouns but I don’t want to cut my hair/ change how I dress, and I would feel really uncomfortable using the men’s toilets, changing rooms, ect. Also I would feel guilty as my mum said ‘how happy she was to have one boy and one girl’, so I feel like I would ruin her ‘perfect family’. Am I still valid? Can someone please help me figure this out? Edit: I’ve realised that I’m transmasc and genderfluid.
