ok so how do you get rid of a problem like this? so for starters, I'm not single. I have a girlfriend. and I have a friend who confessed to me. I didn't say I was dating someone because he didn't know who it was, and 2, he might be homophobic. but lets just say.. he expressed his love more than needed. he'd make [18+] comments on me and talk about it quite a lot. this went on for like 3 months. 3 months of him constantly calling me, I was playing dandy's world, a game where paying attention and surviving are the 2 main points of the game, I was running from a twisted and what do you know, he called me. so I declined it, but he kept spamming me until I joined. he did this to my gf too bc they had met one time on a call. he would spam me every second he could because he knows it annoys me, but also he wants my full undivided attention. to the point he didn't want me talking to my friend Jonah, who he had made me meet on another call. I couldn't even step one foot forward without hearing my ringtone. eventually I just started blocking him when he did this and I'd unblock him later. but then the comments got worse and worse I told my gf Abt it before we just told him to stop, which worked for about 20 minutes, then it escalated. again. so I told my girlfriend Abt it again and we had to take action. I had already blocked grey, so while she talked to him, I called my mom to tell her. but my mom did'nt take me seriously and instead teased me like "oh you like him back yada yada yada" my mom doesn't know I'm lesbian but she isn't homophobic, I didn't tell her bc ik she wouldn't take me seriously. as in, she'd just tease me Abt my relationship and I don't want that . so she joked about the situation for like 20 minutes and I just hung up. my gf wanted me to tell his mom, which only causes more drama I don't want. so I just deleted and blocked his number. but I know for a fact he's stalking me. his friends prolly are. I can't even breathe without thinking about it. I eventually did tell him I had a gf and he still didn't listen... idk what to do anymore.
