I came out to grandma this week yesterday as to be saying I like the same gender also and they/them people *still prob. males* but to also be Incredibly picky of who I liked, she understood why I did since girls were clean *I didn't say this*, she isn't queer, I don't think she's an ally, She just is an understanding person, This felt like a gift for me because I had someone to say, I gave her my trust not to tell anybody else in my family because I know I can trust her, I felt happy to not feel like I'm in an entire family of homophobic's and was able to come out to someone in my family tree *well.. maby a mid tree*