I wrote this at 1AM in my notebook, bored on a Wednesday (or Thursday I guess..?) ——————— I’m sat alone, in the quiet, in the dark.. with only my thoughts. It seems “lonely” to other people, but it’s genuinely so comforting. To be in a quiet space, no one to judge you, no one to watch you. It’s.. peaceful. You feel more connected to yourself, and you obviously understand yourself way better than anyone else could. Being alone is wonderful, being lonely is not. Some people can’t tell the difference, but it’s clear. Being alone is, well, being by yourself. Whether it be in a park, a family outing, or even just your room.. everyone needs time to themselves. Being lonely, however, is not having anyone in your life. It’s not being with anyone.. even maybe not having a family or friends to lean on. It’s pure isolation from other people, and just depressing in general. People often confuse these terms and even I’ve experienced some people assuming that I’m lonely just because I’m sat by myself. Personally, I have a lot of family members and friends. And I’m religious, so I believe that you’re never truly or completely lonely. Anyway, being alone, without any other people around, is a necessity. You need to sit with yourself, explore different paths and discover yourself. However, human connection is important too. Being socially active, building relationships, trust and a community are such amazing and important things. Life is about balance, so don’t lose yourself to isolation or complete disregard for yourself for the sake of others. Sincerely, rae.
