It's not innocent. A decent guy can very well control themselves, and yet we are giving them an out by saying "Oh she was showing a bit and i lost control". You just sound immature, and yet we normalize it to the point it's just "Boys being boys" I, among many other girls, have been given this excuse BY A TEACHER and this is NOT OKAY. They're supposed to be protecting you. Of all places school, where you have to be every day, should be a safe place, not where you're scared to speak up. Boys aren't children. Especially once out of grade school. You have control of your own gosh dang body. You do not need to touch a girl because she's pretty. My school, personally, has said this so much that they accept it. A boy could be highly inappropriate and know exactly what they're doing, but the second she goes for help, he was innocent and out of control and the girl gets penalized! I'm going to say it again, it's not okay! And dress codes. I assure you, nobody was looking at my shoulders except apperantly you, are you having trouble controlling yourself around a 15 year old sir?? I will forever hate school systems like this. The have caused girls literal trauma. Do you want your teenage girls to be scared of their peers and their own body?? Note to boys. Learn to control yourself. Girls deserve respect, not 4ssault. If you ever want to keep a girl, show her kindness, not control.
I know there is some reason to the dress codes and such, I'm just ticked rn and decided to yell into the abys :3 (found this XP) https://www.youtube.com/shorts/BDklvvyioZk
