As much as people don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings most of the time, this so-called "joke" can be somewhat offensive. I know that people like to joke around and what-not, but this can hurt people, even if they know that you were just joking. If you use this as a joke, please be more cautious of how other people feel and only use it as a joke if the other person is fine with it, if the person is not then don't say things like this. I am nonbinary, but my mom (and Gramma) won't stop calling me she/her. I don't like it, but...yeah. I wanted to point out that: you don't HAVE to be a specific gender just because someone tells you to. I hate when people make fun of other people because they're nonbinary or trans or ANYTHING really. it disappoints me to see how many kids are making fun of other kids for not being the "right gender". you don't have a specified gender unless you want to be that way. and if you do, then be yourself (love included)!!! Thank you. I love you all, my beautiful potatoes!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤