Disclaimer: Do not target anyone, please dont let this rant/vent make you feel sad. Its just my opinion, a bad one probably, so Im ok with disagreements yeah some people just dont know when to get mad at others or not. Actually, there's a time and place where we should treat others with respect or not BG: What (not saying the person) did was wrong (critizing my friend's designs wrongfully), but he apologized, and he sounds geneuine ngl, he looked like he didnt mean it. I don't see him doing the same behaviour over and maybe he just made a mistake he was unware of. And not all sorries are true, I get that. But sometimes, we should learn to give second chances. I'm not saying to do this with someone ACTUALLY probomatic, I wouldn't trust someone who would do a horrible thing that they prob would try to say "sorry" just to cover it up But understand that everyone is flawed (if its not problomatic). Not everyone is nice, and so aren't we. Thats why we change, and regret is already a tough punishment But the reason why im losing hope...is that some people just get too carried away. Instead of confronting them and telling the person what they did wrong and just simply stating what future events might take place, it progresses to harrasment and negative stuff to bring them down. As a person, this ain't my business, but it does sadden me to see people hating on others while they try to apologize for their actions. You dont have to forgive them, just be respectful about it Unless they did something REALLY BAD, like maybe repeated behaviour and not learning from it or maybe even a crime, can't we just handle situations calmly? You do not need to tell them "you *insert bad word * as a person and I hope *insert bad wish on someone*" for the sake of protecting friends. Sometimes the things they did ain't even that bad, so why take it like they just commited a crime? LIKE I SAID, throw insults to actual problematic people, because I ain't always forgiving either. But I'm always happier if my forgivness changes a person and teaches them to not make the same mistake. Now thats not always the case, but fighting back with them might make them hate you even more. And well, the best thing if someone were to ask me is either leave them be, tell them what they did, and if you cant stand them, just don't interact and move on (unless they spam you or sum). But it does not need to have you insulting them and ruining their selves because you're mad they did something wrong. Feel free to disagree, maybe I'm just too forgiving, but I will never call someone a b word even if they did something wrong that they wish to forget and change from
