So, when I was discovering that I’m on the AroAce spectrum, I had hated physical touch because it felt gross. However, my grandmother love language was physical affection, and she thought she would get a free pass. But I would keep pushing her away, she wouldn’t kiss me or anything, but she would keep touching me and when I told her she was crossing my boundaries, she would say stuff like “I’m overreacting” or that “I’m crossing her boundaries.” And I mainly remember her trailing her finger down my thigh (I think to tickle me) and I had to slap her hand away, and another time I was leaving my sister’s band concert and she trailed her finger down my spine and I was very uncomfortable. I don’t know what this could be considered as. REMINDER: she changed for the better, I will delete all comments slandering my family.
