soo I have successfully scoured several lists of arospec identities and found some that seem to fit me but they all have problems and I need help bellusromantic: someone who has interest in traditional romantic behavior but wouldn’t want to put it to practice - only put this here because the page I got it from said “can’t” instead of wouldn’t lithromantic: someone who may feel romantic attraction but would lose interest if they knew it was reciprocated - uh idk man myrromantic: basically quoi which I used for a while except the person knows/suspects they fall somewhere on the aromantic spectrum - sounds right but I’d still be leaving myself in confusion requiesromantic: someone who experiences limited romantic attraction due to some form of emotional exhaustion - this FEELS right but upon further investigation, turns out you’re only allowed to use this label if you’re neurodivergent or disabled so guess that one’s garbage I’m tired so I don’t feel like explaining the rest of these please look them up: - azromantic - devotioromantic - doubtromantic lmao - implaromantic - lingerromantic actually seems the best so far - voidromantic I have looked throught every single page of arospec identities on the lgbt miraheze and now I am so goddam tired I don’t care anymore I just want to understand but I don’t really wanna use a microlabel that no one understands without looking it up so I don’t know anymore and honestly I just really don’t care enough to try any harder but I guess i’d use lingerromantic even though its a massive word and the stupid thing keeps giving me a certain word as a suggestion whenever I type lingerromantic and its dumb that I care that much about a little thing
