i'm not making this pretty you might be thinking "oh allie you already have a relationship project for dear why are you making another one??" well !! this is for romance specifically. dearwhisper is getting up there and STILL doesn't have a man (he likes men) SO here is what this project is for. anyone with a male aligned cat in ANY clan (even loners but no kittypets) in the age range of like 50-70 moons can offer. dear is achillean so he only likes cats who aren't women. basically if you have an old guy cat who likes men and doesn't have a lover either, then this is perfect !! also your cat has to have a personality that can deal with dear. OR it could be a rivals to lovers slowburn type of thing idk it's whatever you want all about dearwhisper: he is clanborn in windclan and is very "clan first cats after" and is an insane workaholic. also he doesn't like talking but his name is literally dearWHISPER so it's kinda obvious.... he hates his name tho because he thinks its mocking him dear doesn't like cats outside of his clan (he doesn't like wildflowerstar for marrying a loner) (he also just doesn't like wildflowerstar) BUT i'm desperate and i've never done a forbid before so ... yea dearwhisper is 57 as of typing this (6/3/2026) so he's like middle aged or whatever in cat terms dear is also on the aro spectrum so it takes him a bit to actually fall in love. dearwhisper also might claim some lives along the line so your cat has to be fine with murder (or they aren't and that could cause some tasty drama) i'm also planning his second litter right now (what happened to his first one? uh... they are all gone..) so you have to be fine with him having children. yea actual normal about him is here in his ref: https://scratch.mit.edu/projects/1152440770/ no form or anything if you have a cat who is old like him and isn't a woman and likes men then go ahead and offer !! just give me a ref or something to go off of and some reasons why you think they would be cute together... that's the bare minimum tho so you could do more then that made in like 20 minutes on a random wednesday. sketch is by me