I saw virdie in a mirror while I was not in my own home. I wondered how I would get her back, when suddenly she looked frightened. I rubbed her head. Then it occurred to me that how come I can touch them and they can touch other spirits and objects while also running straight through things *see enrichment in my shadow warpers guide* I rubbed the leaf on virdie’s head, which she really seemed to like. I then rubbed the front of it and my finger went straight through! She quickly vanished. Back home, I was with spark and I realised why they can touch solid objects and also run through them. It is because they go through things when running (not walking) at them. If they intentionally hold or push something it will make contact. Virdie was seen again on my abalone, safely back at home. Her leaf is still a mystery but she is settling in nicely.
I said realised too much.