My family is transphobic. I’m agender. I’ve came out to them and asked to be referred to as it/its and with gender neutral terms. They told me they would not. They’ve been calling me by daughter and with she/her pronouns since then. It’s started to affect me, whenever I think of myself I refer to myself as she. I then catch myself and am disgusted. I can’t really change how my family talks to me. What I can change is how I think of myself. Does anyone have any tips about this?
