u are probably wondering "bastbot why do u keep changing your pronouns and your flags" well I'm trying to figure out what I am and when I was trans I really didn't feel like it was me even though I like dressing up like a female but I don't think being trans would fit me so I was non binary but I like to wear girl clothes so then I looked up the word for non binary and femboy and that's how I am now femby and it means an LGBTQ+ internet slang term that blends "feminine" and "non-binary