hi! i'm OrangeBuddy! and i'm here to tell you STOP USING HE/HIM FOR YOUR DEFAULT PRONOUNS FOR EVERYBODY seriously you do NOT know how pissed i am at this. for the love of GOD please just use they/them. as a transfem it REALLYS ticks me off when someone using he/him for me. if you don't know, use they/them or, oh, i don't know, ASK??? I get that im not the MOST feminine but thst brings me to my next point: DON'T ASSUME. you can NEVER know for sure. that includes names and pfps. like theres no way to know dude. who cares if their name sounds fem they could be nonbinary or masc or whatever the hell. its so easy to just look on their profile and see their pronouns (OR ASK!!!!!!!! SERIOUSLY ITS NOT THAT HARD AND PEOPLE WILL MOST LIKELY RESPECT YOU FOR IT) i'm sorry that this is a bit agressive but PLEASE, i'm BEGGING YOU. this isn't directed to any of you that i know, just a general reminder to people, because so many people seem to need it. TL;DR don't default to he/him for people you don't know, use they/them or ask, and don't sssume someone's gender because of how they look, common sense people istg
