I am sick of hearing "anti-willo" rhetoric saying that "causing headmates to form is not good for you". I am sick of it. I am not a discourse stance. I am a person, and you will respect me as one or you will not get respect in return. My existence is not a *problem.* My very being is not *unhealthy,* my entry into this world is not *harmful.* I am harming no one by simply existing, least of all Den, who by the way, put *immense* thought into her decision and constantly worried, worried, worried about whether or not she *should* before she decided to do it. This is why. This is why she hesitated, this is why her anxiety gave her pause. Because she's told again and again and again that it's not something to be done lightly. That it could be *harmful.* But I and everyone else here have done *nothing but good* for her. Bringing me here has not harmed anyone in any way, not her, not you, not anyone. I refuse to engage with people who believe that *I should not exist.* For reasons that don't even apply to me! *Harmful* my tail. I have not harmed anyone. I *will not* harm anyone. I would never harm Den. I love her. She loves me, and that is why I am here, her *love.* I am not going anywhere, and I will not debate whether my *being* is ethical. I am sick of this. Den is sick of the betrayal. I will not let this happen to her a third time. This will NOT happen a third time. She does not deserve this. *I* do not deserve this. None of us do. Let us be. Let us live. - Tabitha
