TW: mentions of sa, *grape* Okay so like I HAD this friend at school who I've been talking to lately and lk thought I had hit the jackpot.. However as his other friends started coming around I feel disgusted by their presence. I've recently stopped being friends with this person bc even tho they're nice they fell way below my expectations. For context, the aforementioned "other friends" of this person actively make *grape* jokes if you get what I mean, which is first of all repulsive and insensitive but also triggering to me bc I've been a victim of child sa. I brought this issue up to my ex-friend and he laughed AT ME and then shrugged me off completely, even after I explained why it hurt to hear those things. I also learned that he was A RACIST??? And he had the audacity to make another *grape* joke IN FRONT OF ME and expect me to laugh. I haven't talked to him since and I'm probably going to let him just wonder abt it. He needs a lesson in respect anyways.
