"Always be willing to listen and slow to speak. Do not become angry easily." - James 1:19 When someone wants to have a fight with you, you're not responsible. But sometimes you added to the fight with something you did. If this has happened, apologize to God, and try to make peace. Forgive the person and yourself for the mess. Try to listen to the person before you speak. If you haven't created peace with someone, ask for God to help you, as he died on the cross for you to have peace with Him forever.