•*⁀➷October 11: National Coming Out Day ୨୧ ‧₊˚ * ✄┈┉┈┉┈┉┈┉┈┉┈┉┈┉┈┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉┉･*₊˚ ｎｏｔｅｓ... ❥• So apparently is national coming out of the closet day (ty to @_-Coby-_ for making the project that informed me)! so just like ze did, im gonna go through my gender/attraction (definitions in the project) ❥• i dont really remember much but i know for a while i didnt really care at all abt looking into lgbtq+ so from like 0-12 i didnt know anything. (female/?) ❥• then at 11 i decided to look into it a little, and since i'd never had a crush before, i just assumed i was bi ("well i feel the same abt boys and girls so ig im bi") and i didnt even think abt gender (female/bi?) ❥• In oct 2023 (was still 11) i learned what aromantic and as3xual means, and pretty much instantly knew that was right, since i could never imagine myself in a romantic relationship (and definatly not the other one) still didnt think abt gender (female/aroace) ❥• it was like that for almost 3 years (oct 2023 - june 2026) then (at 13) i started questioning myself (because of pierrot from tfc) but i still knew i would never want to be in a relationship, so i started looking deeper into the aromantic and as3xual spectums, and found the terms aegoromantic and aegos3xual ("woah thats describing almost exactly whats going on!") and realized that im aegoaroace still, nothing on gender (female/aegoaroace) ❥• in sept (now 14) i still felt comfortable with how i was in june (little note: ive never really cared abt pronouns. Ive always preferred she/her, but wouldnt really care if someone used he/him or they/them for me (would also be okay with neopronouns, i just dont really like them, and definatly not it/its cus it feels objectifying to me)) i was watching smt and found the term apagender and didnt know what it meant so i looked it up (and found the lgbtq+ wiki) and thought it kinda fit, but i didnt feel exactly apathetic, since i did have a preference so i did a little more digging and found that it is commonly confused with cassgender, so it was that for like a week, but it still felt a little off cuz i do feel like a girl, so i went back to where i found the other terms and found the term cassgirl, which pretty much fits perfectly. ❥• so thats how it is now! wow that was a lot of typing and a lot of words. the flags on the first slide in the projects are the aegoaroace (left) and cassgirl (right) flags. ╰┉┉┅┄┄┈┈┈┈◦•◦❥•◦ ｃｒｅｄｉｔｓ... ❥• idk ˋ°•*⁀➷══════════════════•°❀*₊◦ ◦₊˚.༄ ೃ* - Ty for reading this! ❀• Pixel ♡‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿‿♡
