For context HES TRANSMASC if you werent aware, the concept of "hating all men EXCLUDING trans men" is occasionally considered TRANSPHOBIC because it excluses trans men from other men, essentially "denying" their masculinity IN THIS CONTEXT I MEANT TO SAY THAT MEN WHO TURNED UP THEIR NOSES AT THE IDEA OF PERFORMINF AN ACT THAT THEY SEE AS "FEMININE " BUT I KIND OF RUSHED TO ASSURE HIM THAT I DIDNT MEAN HKIM AND I PANICKED Also i pretend to hate him a lot so thats why i said the last bit
