Why is love so confusing? Second thoughts. Third thoughts..... If you break up with the person, your regrets will haunt you the next day. Just like it happened to me..... I don't want to break up with him! I will be upset too. I don't even want to tell him I need a break! Not even for a day... He's gonna think differently of me. He's not like my ex. He might not be. He wont take me back. Even if I say it's a mistake...... A lot of people probably wont. Or they might try to get me back, like my other ex.