❤ Bruno Is Orange meme ❤

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I would have posted this on my vent account, but I feel like this is more of a rant than a vent. I don't know, I might remix it and put it on there too. But I just have to say this. Anyone who says 'My mother is horrible' because they didn't raise you right is stupid. No matter what they do, a mother will have your best interests at heart. They TRY to raise you. they TRY to do what's right. They didn't take the easy way out, and send you to an adoption center or abort, no, they kept you, and TRIED to raise you. But remember. They're just humans. Why on earth would they know how to raise a human being? Were they ever taught? No. They only have their own experience to go off. That's why they try to raise you exactly how they think they should have been raised. What they fail to understand is that we're NOT just mini versions of them. We have our own thoughts, feelings and emotions. Our own looks, our own friends, our own problems. We're born in a completely different time, with completely different technology. We CAN'T be raised exactly how they should have. But they don't see that. They block out our emotions because they think we're just teenagers, and we'll grow out of it, because hey, they did! They're not being intentionally malicious, but still, they hurt us ever so much. I can't talk to my mother about my feelings, because I know she'll brush them off. She feels as if no emotion I have is real. That I'm just an 'edgy teen'. Because that's what she herself was raised to learn. It's what I'm being raised to learn. But I'm a lot more stubborn than most, and I refuse to just let people tell me what to think. I don't agree with my mum's way of raising me at all. I don't agree with half of the things she does to me. I hate most of it. But at the end of the day, I remind myself that everything she does is out of love for me. It may seem like she doesn't love me, and that she doesn't care, but if she didn't care, she wouldn't go to the effort of being strict, managing so many punishments, and pushing me to the point of living in fear. I'm not excusing her treatment of me. I still think it's wrong. But it's important to understand other people's feelings, instead of just feeling sorry for yourself all the time. I love my mum, and I'd do anything to make her happy, just as she would me. We may argue, we make each other cry, and sometimes we even say we hate each other, but in the end, I know that we would both give our own lives just to save the other. Respect your mum. She's just a human being. She's confused, and there's absoloutly no reason why she should know how to correctly raise you. Don't ridicule her for every mistake she makes, because she's just a human being.