My Daughter murdered a Very Hated bratty child, and I punished her for doing so... But she injured herself just a few hours after I told her she was grounded. I was told that was not normal, even for her level of maturity. So I'm gonna decrease the amount of time I'm grounding Lavender by alot, and make sure she sees a therapist. Also, Pre's been suggesting that Lavender gets an Account. I'm not sure if she should get one, since she's 3/ almost 4, but we'll see how it goes...