Rose is very rarely seen and can sometimes be spotted talking to graves or rushing around the graveyard. Only questing duchesses (or the queen) will speak with her. She is sometimes called a spirit because she is never seen but she is alive. Once you get to know her she is very chatty. She just want to spend time with the family. Yes duchesses are considered family so if you join the castle you are sistered to say... Tracy for example. The reason that she is so ghost like is because... well it's difficult to know because I don't see her very often. I know she wants to be Queen but that has never happened before.