Thanks to @-pride-aesthetics- for the original! For Blue: As long as it's not used in a demeaning/objectifying way. (Don't agonize over this too much, most of the time I only find it annoying is when it is in person.) Examples where I would be okay with the terms in blue: -When it is used as encouragement. "You're beautiful, keep it up!" -When I am being referred to by my close friends/family. "Go talk to Miss [real name lol] over there." Examples where I would NOT be okay with the terms in blue: -Being referred to by strangers/people I'm not familiar with. "Hey Miss/Young Lady" -Being used to judge my outside appearance/someone deeming me attractive. "You're cute/pretty."