click flag for pronouns and other terms i'm not a huge fan of multiple punctuation unless i know you, in which case it's 100% fine - stuff like "hello????" or "how do you do that????" or "what's up!!!!!" just makes me a little uncomfy - less so with ! and more so with ?, but just try to avoid excessive exclamations or questions, please dni if you're homophobic, transphobic racist, ableist, etc - just be a good person and you should be fine, but none of the above will be tolerated please don't talk about religion unless i initiate the conversation, or unless it's in a joking context - "oh my god" or "good lord" are 100% okay with me! please try to use tone indicators IF you're sending a message that could be interpreted the wrong way, or if you're sending a very curt message - I'll always appreciate "okay! /gen" over "okay" or "sure /pos" over "sure."