what is ableism? ableism is discrimination to those who are disabled/perceived to have disabilities. ableism defines people just by their disability, which is wrong. it can also apply to mental disorders. it is actually pretty common to use ableist behaviour. i, myself, have stupidly used the r-slur long before i found out what it really means. if you hear any one saying this slur when they do not reclaim it, call them out and educate them. if you see people laughing at someone in having a panic attack, call them out for it and educate them. if you see someone mocking someone in a wheelchair, call them out for it and educate them. ableism has become so normal in our society. look back to me saying the r-slur multiple times. our generation is growing up learning these, as if its any other word. our generation is growing up thinking people with missing legs and arms is funny. disabled people should not be called the r-slur by non-disabled people. i hope this educated you:)