☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ stop being over-modest ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ——— • why it's a problem - ok, this is pretty annoying. i've seen this happen MULTIPLE times. people say "omg my banner sucks :((" which essentially GUILT-TRIPS people into saying "nonononon your awesome <33" being modest is fine, in fact its great! that means your polite & nice! but being excessively modest isn't good for you </3 ——— • stop - one way to stop is having a better mindset, & believing in yourself is one of the key points to that (more info in next section). along w/ that, if YOU see someone being like this there's nothing wrong w/ complimenting them to cheer them up, but please keep in mind that some people do in fact do this for attention. ——— • a better mindset - as i mentioned above, one of the ways to stop self-deprecating is believing in yourself! believing in yourself can improve what you believe about yourself <33 another way is by talking to yourself! give yourself compliments! if you can believe the negative thoughts then you can believe positive ones, too :)) lastly, make some friends <33 talk to some people you find interesting, make a friend group! friends are really nice & can help boost your self-esteem! i hope this helped you <3 ——— ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ thank you for reading! ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ © @estella-diaries 2022 inspo by @sincerely-wynn
