I know at least one person is going to say " You're such a bad person for losing interest like just that! She deserves so much better than a selfish brat like you." and to you I say yes, I have been a bad bf And I agree she does deserve someone much better than me. I wasn't being selfish I was just confused. And if she finds my scratch account, I just want to say Tilly, I'm sorry you have to find out like this. I hope you can find a better partner than me. If we do break up I still hope we can be friends. I still love you just not in that kind of way. If we do stop being friends because of this, I hope you have a nice life, and a healthy successful relationship with your new partner.