hiiiii so if you didnt know, i am trans-non-binary :) i came out to my parents in...like August i think? so 8 months ago I'm very lucky, because my parents were very accepting and explained to my extended family that i am non-binary and use they/them pronouns so uhm lets talk about my journey discovering my gender! so for years and years, the pronouns she/her and being called a girl just...didn't feel right to me. then i discovered that theres other genders than girl and boy/male and female Imao- my friend, @BraveLearner or @G-r-e-e-n-t-e-a told me about demi-girls. for a few months, i felt like that fit me more. lol, my friend also came out as a demi-girl at the same time. so I used she/they pronouns for a while (people still mainly used she/her though, that hurt a little) so yeah. that lasted for a few months, then we went to some festival thing i wont give all the details, but there was a bunch o queer people there and it helped me realise what i actually am. on the way home, i was thinking about it for ages, then i finally decided to talk to my mother about it while we were outside kfc (lol). so yeah, she asked me a few questions and stuff, but said if thats what i feel like i am, she wouldnt question it (<3) i've been using they/them pronouns for months and months now, and im happy with it. i do fencing if you didnt know, and i think almost everyone there thinks im a boy Imao-- i dont really care if you call me male or use he/him pronouns for me, i just find it funny haha i do prefer they/them though somewhere along the line i decided i was trans-non-binary instead of just non-binary (people see it differently, its different for everyone. :] ) so thats me coming out and my lgbtq+ journey! if you're wondering, why didnt i talk about my s3xuality? i haven't figured that out yet- so im questioning :D (wait that means i can use 3 flags-) (hehehhehe) (okay ive been talking for too long peace)
