If I know you irl please don't keep reading, and if you do, don't talk to me about it or anything. Trigger warning for some, it talks about being a transboy and breaking down boxes of being a lesbian lol/// Some people have been telling me that I can't be a lesbian if I'm a boy, that it's against the definition of lesbian. One person even said 'but lesbian means nothing if anyone can be a lesbian'. But yet, the LGBTQAI+ community is all about being true to ourselves and being who we ant to be. Anyone can be a boy, even if it goes against the definition of a boy. Shall I pull out the definition of a boy directiy from the dictionary?: a male child or young man A male definition (bear with me): of or denoting the s3x that produces small, typically motile gametes, especially spermatozoa, with which a female may be fertilized or inseminated to produce offspring. And I can be a boy even if I don't fit the definition of a male! So why can't I be a lesbian and not fit inside the small box of being a lesbian? I get that some people don't like me saying this. But I don't f***ing CARE if I 'can't be a lesbian because I'm a boy'! That is so close to saying that I can't be a boy if I'm born a female! I can use whatever label I think fits me the most! So leave me alone about it! I'm honestly hurt and sad that people in my own, trusted community are mad at me for saying I'm a lesbian. That's just... ouch. Come on guys! Please be more inclusive. (keep reading in the notes and credits!!!)
Because of what I said in the instructions, I'm taking a loooong break from the gaehive because what a lot of people said there honestly made me rlly upset. I know you probably didn't mean it, but I don't want to be around people telling me I can't use certain labels because of this and that. And don't even /think/ about commenting on this and saying more about how 'it just doesn't make sense' for me to be a lesbian boy. Because I. don't. care. Thank you for reading this. Also as long as it's positive please comment!!!
